Here is something most married folks do not realize when applying for an FHA Loan

Today’s world of mortgages is made up by two sorts of loans government backed loans and government insured loans. Government insured loans are hugely popular. The FHA Loan is the benchmark government loan appealing to many due to its flexible guidelines and lower down payment options. Here is one pitfall you need to know if you are married….

 

Unlike government backed loans such as Fannie Mae loans the FHA views married couples jointly. This means joint responsibility and joint liabilities. FHA Loans require the lender pulls credit on the debt of the spouse even if the spouse is not on the mortgage. Let’s say you have a husband and wife scenario. Husband is on the loan and has a healthy credit score manageable debts and a solid job. Spouse does not. So she is not on the mortgage application. Lender pulls his credit on both the husband and the wife in this scenario because the FHA requires it. If the wife has separate debt beyond the obligations of the anchor borrower those obligations will be counted into the debt to income ratio.

 

This requirement has no bearing on the transaction being a refinance or purchase. The debt of the spouse will always count against the borrower even if they are not on the loan. The reason this can become problematic is because of the debts of the spouse exceed the anchor borrowers obligations that can drive up the debt to income ratio lowering borrowing power in the process. This could hurt one’s ability to perform on a purchase contract or forgo a refinance opportunity.

 

If you are single this requirement does not apply. If you are single, but engaged this requirement does not apply. When you become legally married is when the guideline kicks in and when the debt of both spouses is required for qualifying for the mortgage loan.

 

Mortgage tip: if one of the spouses is applying for a mortgage for another property in a sole and separate transaction, a quit claim deed at escrow is going to be required for the married spouse signing off on the transaction.

 

If you are married and plan to apply for an FHA Loan plan on lender looking at both yours and your spouse’s credit reports. If your spouse has credit that otherwise hurts the financial profile consider changing loan programs such as switching from an FHA loan to a conventional loan. A conventional loan only requires 1.5% more in down payment than FHA and does not have that requirement which may improve borrowing chances. If you are not married and plan to get married and you know what the financial picture of your spouse is buy the house first then tie the knot.

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When buying a home, it’s natural to want the lowest mortgage rate possible. But sometimes, chasing a slightly better rate from another lender—especially after your offer has already been accepted—can backfire in a big way. Let’s walk through a real-world scenario. You’ve got an offer accepted on a house. You’re working with a lender who has you approved, documents in underwriting, and a 21-day close of escrow in place. Everything is moving forward. Then you hear from another lender offering a rate that’s 0.25% lower, with slightly better closing costs. It’s tempting. But before you make a jump, here’s what you need to consider. Switching Lenders Comes with Time Costs When you pivot to a new lender mid-contract, they’ll need to: Re-underwrite your entire loan, Order a new appraisal, Disclose and sign new loan documents, Submit the file for final loan approval, Schedule and fund closing—all over again. This doesn’t happen overnight. Even in ideal circumstances, the new lender is likely going to need at least 25–30 days to close. If you’re in a fast-moving or competitive market, this is a real problem. Most sellers won’t grant a contract extension just because you’re switching lenders. So, what happens next? A Contract Extension Can Jeopardize Your Deal Asking for a contract extension means the seller must agree to delay closing. But that delay introduces risk—especially if the seller has backup offers or simply wants certainty. They may not grant the extension. Or worse, they could cancel the deal outright and take another buyer’s offer. Even if the seller agrees to extend, your earnest money and negotiation power could take a hit. And for what? A slightly lower rate that might save you $50 to $75 a month? Mortgage Rates Aren’t as Far Apart as You Think Here’s the truth: all mortgage lenders get their money from the same place—the bond market. The pricing differences between lenders usually range from 0.125% to 0.25% in rate on any given day. If one lender seems to be offering dramatically better pricing, the first thing you should ask is: How? Head over to FreddieMac.com and check the average 30-year fixed rate posted weekly. This is one of the most reliable benchmarks for where rates truly stand in the market. If a lender is quoting you a rate that’s well below that average, ask for the details: Are they charging extra points? Is this a teaser rate with a prepayment penalty? Is it based on a different loan product or risky structure? Often, what sounds “too good to be true”… is. Consider the Bigger Picture Think long-term. If you’re financing $600,000, a 0.25% lower rate may reduce your payment by roughly $75/month. But what if you lose the house and have to start over? That monthly savings doesn’t mean much if you’re outbid on your dream home or lose your deposit. Also, remember: you’re not going to keep this rate forever. Today’s homebuyers typically refinance when rates drop by about 0.75% or more. So if rates fall within the next year or two, you’ll likely be refinancing anyway. Instead of paying extra points now or risking the entire deal for a minor monthly savings, it may be better to accept a slightly higher rate—knowing you’ll refinance when the time is right. The Real Risk Isn’t the Rate—It’s the Delay When shopping for a home loan, don’t just ask, “What’s your rate?” Ask: Can you close on time? Is this rate sustainable or based on hidden costs? Will switching lenders delay or jeopardize my contract? A home purchase contract is a binding agreement between you and the seller to perform within a set timeframe. If you can’t meet those dates because you're chasing a slightly better rate elsewhere, you may want to reconsider if now is the right time to buy. Final Thoughts Yes, interest rates matter. But execution matters more. Before making a switch mid-transaction, talk to your lender. Have an honest conversation about pricing, timelines, and strategy. You might find that staying the course, securing the house, and planning to refinance later offers a better path to financial security. Want to Know Your Options? Let’s compare rates and strategies the smart way—without risking your dream home. 👉 Click here to get a custom rate quote today.

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